Being a dual personality is not a good sign at all. It looks so awkward at first, but yes, it worked many times. Sometimes you need this and it’s good for both of you and the people around you.
Don’t let your face or eyes or your facial expressions act as a projector for your inside world. Don’t let your feelings come out at your face, or reflect by your tone or by your routine. Remember, there are very few, really VERY few who care about you, your problems and get tense when you are down. Everyone is busy in his/her life. Might be they say some good words to you, send you some good texts, give you courage, but after that, it’s you who are left alone with your problems.
I haven’t any doubt about my friends who are always there when I’m sad when I feel down. They are Allah Almighty’s blessings in my life. Without them, I can’t survive. but it is such a bitter truth that it is you who have to take care of your problems or the hurdles of your life. it is not in my case, it is for everyone. Others can only push you for a while but it is you who face the problem. So be relaxed in front of others. “All is Well” is the best policy. When you have to tackle your problems, why disturb others? Be fresh, relaxed and calm. buried deep inside you whatever is going bad.
Again, there are very few, (when I say “very” I mean that) who feel your pain, feel your disturbance. Don’t lose them. For the rest of the world, “Ya everything is great.”